Abraham Lincoln said it best: “Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.”
I’ve spent four decades in the trenches of commercial real estate in New York City. I’ve trained brokers, competed against them, and collaborated with the best in the business. And I can tell you with 100% certainty, top performers all share three traits.
First, they specialize. They don’t try to be everything to everyone. They go deep, not wide. They master a market niche that’s narrow enough to dominate but large enough to generate meaningful revenue. Generalists survive. Experts thrive.
Second, they love it. Passion isn’t optional. Because this business is brutally cyclical. There will be down markets, dry spells, and deal fatigue. Without a deep love for the work, you’ll give up before the market comes back. Passion keeps you going when logic says you shouldn’t.
Third, they embrace discipline. Discipline is the secret sauce. Not talent. Not charisma. It’s the ability to do the boring, repetitive, mundane tasks like cold calls, updates, follow-ups, day in, day out, even when you don’t feel like it. The great ones don’t rise above the basics. They master them.
Stop searching for the hack, the shortcut, or the next shiny strategy. Focus instead on owning your niche, fueling your passion, and building a bulletproof routine.
That’s the formula. It’s not sexy. But it’s proven.
If you're in this business… really in it… stop acting like you're playing a short game. Treat your career like a marathon. Learn to love the laps.
Thanks to Shlomi Reuveni and REUVENI Development Marketing for hosting "The Broker's Briefing" at 77 Greenwich. You can watch the whole episode on YouTube.
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